♂ Flame of Mars - Infused with Maitreya Reiki

My Mars is incredibly strong on its own. But having Mars in Scorpio, I was always in conflict with a peaceful lifestyle. I would see dangers where there were none, and like a magnet, I’d provoke arguments and conflicts out of nowhere. It feels like my Mars always showed its true courage and bravery in extreme situations. Also my Mars in the tenth house caused problems at work: I’d create tense situations or attract controlling bosses. But that was a while ago.
In the first week of using this field, I felt an incredible inner power. But the hardest part was that this energy was difficult to control. You feel this inner aggression and fire; everything starts to bother you. Any little thing that felt like an attack – even if it wasn’t – would trigger a need to defend myself and my territory. The smallest disagreement with loved ones could turn into something explosive.
Wanting to channel this power constructively, I set myself a few goals. One was to do HIIT workouts. I decided to do them at home, 20 minutes every day for a month, the same set of excercises from YT.
Despite the pain, muscle soreness, and fatigue, the energy kept me going, and I stuck with it for the whole month without missing a single day. I think Mars’s qualities, combined with the Saturn archetype, which represents discipline, really helped me with that.
Another goal of mine wasn’t achieved because of huge resistance from family patterns and subconscious beliefs. These are deep, existential blocks that were in my way. But I worked on them persistently for a month, using family constellation work and doing my own setups. If you know this tool, you’ll understand. Now I realize I acted with incredible persistence, working through a massive amount of material. I did it almost every day, whenever new information came up.
If you want to use this field, you need to be sure you’ve worked through your own level of inner aggression, otherwise, it could get out of control. But if you’re into sports and lack discipline, this field will give you what you need. It increases your inner drive.
While using this archetype, I felt like a coiled spring, ready to go off at any moment. This state is familiar to me – I lived in it for most of my life – the field just intensified it. Now, though, I want more lightness and calm. I don’t want to be in a state of constant “fighting spirit” and tension. I want harmony and balance. Even though that intense state makes you feel alive, I realize I need rest and to alternate between striving and relaxing.
Using the Mars archetype made me sharper in conversations, and I started accidentally rubbing people the wrong way again. I lost some of my softness and tolerance. When you have clear personal boundaries, any violation of them now feels like a signal to fight.
Working with this archetype is very powerful, especially if you need to develop determination, strengthen your boundaries, and become more assertive.
The Mars archetype field reduced my tendency to over-analyze everything (which I did as a meticulous Virgo) and gave me more confidence in my actions. I started to realize: the perfect moment will never come, you have to start now, and mistakes are just part of the journey. I moved from a state of constant preparation to a state of action.
I also feel I’ve gained a new awareness of my “will to power” as a natural, healthy instinct. On a physical level, the archetype fills you with tangible strength that others can feel. During physical work, thoughts like “I’m tired, let’s take a break” are gone. Instead, the mindset is, “I’m doing this. Don’t stop me, I’ll say when I’m done.” The field gives you incredible stamina.
Saying NO becomes as natural as breathing.
My view of achievement has changed. Before, it came from a place of “I have to,” using willpower and pushing through. Now, it comes from a place of excitement and strategic action. The days of hesitation are gone, replaced by clarity and a readiness to take responsibility for any choice I make. By the way, I think the virtues Motivation, Purposefulness, and Responsibility, which I used at the same time, played a huge role. I’ll write about them separately – virtues have become my new passion.
My default way of interacting used to be based on conflict, and this archetype brings that back, but now conflict becomes a tool, not a threat. If someone wants to start a conflict – fine, you know you’ll be able to defend yourself anyway. It gives you that confidence. It’s great to have a well-developed Mars: you can stay silent and not react, but if someone crosses your boundaries, they’ll definitely get what’s coming.
Don’t forget, Mars is the god of war, and leaving this energy unchecked is dangerous.

I am a woman to start with, and initially I rejected the idea of using this field. I was afraid that it would put me into masculine energy way too much. Absolutely not!
If you're familiar with the concept of dark and light feminine, then you probably know that dark feminine is magnetic, powerful and has boundaries that most people don't like. It seems that this archetype puts your dark feminine in charge and it feels amazing.

What this field did to me was shocking and so good. I was triggered, yes. I tend to be a very considerate person (on a people-pleaser level). My family trained me well to be a good girl, and I always felt guilty when I was exploring my inner fire. With this field, I burn. I burn and it feels so good. It feels like coming back home and not caring what people say about how I decorated it. My home, my life, my rules, my world.
I burn with a flame that was always inside of me, but it was too much, too intense for others. I feel sexy, magnetic, confident and I don't care if I am too much. I speak what I think. Of course, I still have manners but when family members are trying to impose their rules again, I stand my ground. Firmly. I don't negotiate, I don't bend. You had your life to live; leave my life for me.

Good girls get their ass kicked by everyone. No more. When I feel the need to balance this energy, I play Venus, but to be honest, the Flame of Mars resonates with my soul. It unlocks my being.