“Choose love, not fear.”
It’s a phrase that floats through spiritual spaces like incense. Soft, comforting, idealistic. It suggests that love is the higher choice — that fear is always the lower one. That if you want to live an awakened life, you must reject fear, dissolve resistance, and open your heart no matter what.

But as beautiful as it sounds, this message can become dangerously reductive.

Because sometimes, what we label as “fear” is actually instinct.
And sometimes, the most loving act is not openness — but self-protection.

There is a critical difference between fear as paralysis and fear as information.
Not every fear is irrational. Not every caution is trauma. Some fears exist to keep you safe, to signal when something is off, to help you recognize manipulation, imbalance, or danger.

When we teach people to automatically dismiss fear, we risk teaching them to override their own intelligence — to spiritualize naivety.

True love includes discernment. It knows when to stay close and when to step away. It honors not only connection but also autonomy, choice, and self-respect.

To always “choose love” in the name of being spiritual — even when your body says no, even when your intuition contracts — is to participate in a subtle form of self-abandonment.

It’s not love if it costs you your clarity.

In this binary of “love vs. fear,” emotions like anger, suspicion, or grief are often dismissed as “low vibration.” But these so-called negative states are often carrying truth. They are messengers, not obstacles.

To heal doesn’t mean to silence your shadows — it means to understand them. To listen, not suppress. To honor what they protect, not to shame them into silence.

Instead of forcing yourself to choose love in every situation, try this:
- Ask what kind of love is needed: Protective love? Fierce love? Distant love?
- Ask what the fear is protecting you from — and whether that protection is still necessary.
- Recognize that sometimes the most courageous choice is to say no.
- Trust that maturity includes contradiction: you can hold both caution and compassion at once.

Real love has teeth. It has edges. It knows when to fight, when to walk away, and when to stay open.

To choose love is not to suppress fear.
It is to meet it with respect, and to decide with discernment — not dogma.

Because spiritual growth is not about being “always open.”
It’s about being fully present, deeply rooted, and wise enough to know when the safest answer is: Not this time.

When you begin honouring your boundaries, you’ll notice that your energy shifts — and so do the energies around you. Sometimes, the moment you say no is the moment old cords, projections, and lingering influences try to hold on.

Elven Cleansing Potion , infused with Celestial Essence through the Maitreya Reiki™ System of Spiritual Healing, is designed for exactly these moments. This gentle yet potent mousse face wash goes far beyond skin care — it carries the field of Universal Clearing , dissolving stagnant or invasive energies from every layer of your being, including echoes from past and future lives.

Key Benefits Connected to Boundaries and Discernment:

• Post-Traumatic Energies: Releases the energetic residue of past harm, helping you reclaim your right to feel safe in your own space.

• Offensive Energies: Clears entities, cords, implants, and sabotage imprints that can cloud judgment and weaken boundaries.

• Mental Energies: Dissolves despair anchors, manipulation imprints, and hidden constructs that interfere with clear decision-making.

• Addictive Heart Energies: Removes emotional hooks that keep you tied to situations you’ve outgrown.

• Emotional Energies: Resolves inherited and trapped emotions, allowing you to stand firm in your truth without guilt.

• Release from Others’ Opinions: Cuts through external judgments and expectations, supporting unapologetic self-trust.

• Rediscovery of Self: Boosts clarity, self-awareness, and confidence — the foundation for healthy boundaries.

• Heightened Senses & Awareness: Clears mental fog so you can sense misalignment before it escalates.

• Revitalized Spirit: Fills your field with fresh, empowering energy.

• Preparedness for Challenges: Strengthens resilience so you can protect your peace without losing your compassion.

With Elven Cleansing Potion , you’re not just purifying your skin — you’re clearing your field to make decisions from sovereignty, not pressure. In a world that often confuses love with blind openness, this is your reminder: protection is also sacred.